How Does The Golden Rule Apply To Cognitive Compatibility?
Chase: 00:07 Hey guys, C. S. Joseph with CSJoseph.Life again. So, tonight we're gonna be doing a kickoff of the next series for human nature, which is talking about compatibility. Um, I call it synchronicity. A lot of people don't realize that the cognitive functions themselves can actually synchronize together between multiple human beings and actually create something completely new. Uh, if someone was going to get all religious on me, then they'd probably start talking about how, you know, two halves become a whole, you know, people get married, you know, and then they have the, their, their, their marriage and then they're married, and then all of a sudden, you know, the two become one, right? That's a fascinating way of looking at it. But how does that actually work from, excuse me, a cognition standpoint. So human cognition is [a], it's very human beings are basically puzzle pieces, right?
Chase: 01:15 And they could fit together with each other, they can also fit together well as a whole, at a macro level, and at a micro level. It's that kind of synergy that's available to human consciousness that makes us an amazing species. And obviously the most unique species on the planet because of how our personas fit together, like puzzles, little puzzle pieces. So mankind, essentially, each of them contains it's own unique personal mental genome basically, or a soul genome, right? And that is our nature. That is our type, right? The 16 types, and all of the 16 types represents the entire cognitive genome of the human species from a nature standpoint. So that cognitive genome, it's not just 16 archetypes, that's just, that's really too high level. That's way too big picture. If we were to go down into the weeds, you know, 16 personality types times four sides of the mind, times four cognitive functions each, right? And each of those cognitive functions have different bandwidths, different moods, different predispositions. How many total dimensions of human cognition is that? That's a very large... oh, and by the way, you have to also separate it from male and female on top of all that. So you have to double it. That's a lot of dimensions of available human cognition, right? That most people don't even realize is a thing, but it is a thing.
Chase: 03:06 Cognition, it's really wonderful thing, and, and, uh, these cognitive functions available in our mental genome can synchronize together and create something new through unity, Well it's necessary for us to actually do that to survive because no one human being, no one type is actually capable of doing it all, right? So based on that, we have to be willing to work with each other and work together to be able to do so much more. Right? And that's true. If mankind spoke the same language, right? We're communicating together and we're unified and we're focusing on one goal, anything is possible, literally anything. Any advancement that you could think of, even immortality, some would argue is actually within the grasp of mankind specifically as a result of everyone speaking the same language, being on the same page and being unified with that one goal in mind.
Chase: 04:14 Everyone simultaneously working towards that goal. That really opens up a huge realm of the impossible. You know, things that exist in the metaphysical realm and not in the physical realm all of a sudden are being brought into the physical because of that synchronicity among human beings and the synchronicity that they have with cognitive functions. The thing is some functions are more synchronous or compatible than others. So, basically we just opened up a new puzzle box, a new box of puzzle pieces, right? You got the picture that we're going for. We kind of envision in our mind what we're trying to make these puzzles out of, but in reality we're just throwing it up all on the table. Now there's puzzle pieces everywhere and we got to figure this out, right? So how do we do that? Obviously you take the puzzle pieces and see which ones fit together by looking at the ends and look at the picture. It's the same thing we got to do with our cognitive functions to identify with which other functions do we synchronize with the most.
Chase: 05:28 So the next couple of videos are going to discuss that. They're going to discuss how the cognitive functions are compatible with each other. They're also going to discuss how they synchronize and can be in sync together to gain additional mental results for all parties involved. Beyond this series I'm going to be doing another series to show how this cognitive synchronicity works, and what we'll be talking about how any of the 16 types are compatible with which 16. We're also going to be talking about... we'll be ranking the types, to, to discuss, okay, well how compatible is this one type with this other type? How compatible are they from an intimate relationship, or how about business, or sales, [or] parenting? Every aspect of human interaction, every aspect; everyone is able to be tracked, or traced, or understood through cognitive synchronicity, even sexuality. I dare say that I can be watching a new couple getting married and as a result of using depth psychology, I could accurately predict their sexual response, and I could also predict how the results of their marriage will be. Whether or not they'll stay together, whether they won't - just on synchronicity. "Wow! That's a really bold claim, are you sure you could do that?" Yeah, I'm sure I can do that, so I'm going to prove it to you. We'll be doing each of these different series. We've got to break it down to the cognitive functions first before we go into the 16 types. And then after that we'll look into the types.
Chase: 07:31 So why, why is all this relevant? Why is cognitive synchronicity important? Why? Uh, why should we figure out who's compatible or who's synchronous with who? Well, it's because it solves a lot of problems, right? Imagine this situation, you're in a relationship with somebody and you take him to the bedroom, right? And they're like, oh, I'm going to give you a really good experience, and then all of a sudden you feel bad because you were hoping to give them a good experience. So who's right? What about the situations where you're in the bedroom and someone's like, oh, I hope I get a really good experience. And then the other person, the other partner says, I'm going to give you a good experience. I think the latter is much more compatible than the former, but a lot of people don't understand this. Just even our base sexual problems can be solved with synchronicity. Everything can be solved with synchronicity by optimizing people's compatibility and causing their cognitive functions to be put together in such a way by putting people around the right people they become more effective, more capable. All parties present become more capable to achieve, and they can achieve anything as long as they're all on the same page, and they're unified, and they're going in the same direction. They have the same vision.
Chase: 09:18 And that is the greatest component of human cognition. The greatest result, basically the magnum opus itself. So why? Why is it our responsibility to know this? Well, let's talk about that real quick, and I'll finish with this. It was an old rule, long time ago, it's even Biblical, not here, trying to get all religious on you, it's not about that. I don't care which religious texts you subscribe to or read. I'll probably read it, and I'll probably find whatever wisdom or inkling of knowledge of truth exists within. I don't really care. I just care about the facts, right? So there's one, there's one rule, old saying, that was said at one point in time, and it goes like this: treat others the way you want to be treated.
Chase: 10:18 Jesus said that, I believe. Well, people call that the Golden Rule, right? So the Golden Rule, how the hell is it possible for anyone to treat anyone else the way they want to be treated, if that person doesn't know their own type or the type of other people,? Like someone explain that to me. Oh wait, you can't, because the real fact is the hidden truth behind the Golden Rule is this. If I'm an ENTP and I want people to be okay with ENTPs, or be okay with me being an ENTP, okay with my ego, right? Because my experience, no one really likes ENTPs. People just don't like how sincere truth telling, you know, people can't handle the sincerity of the ENTPs, you know? Okay, well that's my virtue, right? My vice is insincerity, but just by virtue people can't handle the sincerity, right?
Chase: 11:20 So if they can't handle that, how is it okay that anyone else is going to be okay with me being an ENTP? Who's going to be okay with it? Nobody. So instead, I'm going to continue to be treated like an outcast for the three percent of this world's population that my mind represents, right? So what the hell? What about, what about me? What am I going to do? Again, the Golden Rule, treat others [you] want to be treated. So I realized that the hidden truth behind the Golden Rule is a responsibility, and here it is. If I want people to be okay with me being an ENTP, a rarer type a type, that's three percent of the population, a type that is very misunderstood, very mishandled. A type in which people assume is going to manipulate them or take advantage of them. A type people believe are shifty, liars, creepy, edgy. If people are ever going to be okay with ENTPs, right... if people are ever going to get to that point, then what's [then], then how's that possible? Treat others the way you want to be treated.
Chase: 12:39 If I want people to be okay with me being an ENTP, I need to be okay with you being an ISTP, or an ESTJ, or an ISFJ, or an ESFJ, or an ENFP, or an INFP, or an INFJ. Name any of the types, I have to be okay with it . So, it does me no good if I don't know my own type, so it's every human being's responsibility and as much as it is my responsibility to come to terms with which type I am. Then, after knowing my type, after knowing that, it becomes my responsibility then to know your type. By knowing your type and actually seeking to understand you where I can potentially, if I have to, emulate for your benefit, have a conversation with you. If I understand you, then I understand all the reasons why you do what you do.
Chase: 13:33 I understand why you behave the way you do and and through understanding that and understanding you, we could actually have a relationship even if we're not compatible. Even if there is a lack of synchronicity between our cognitive functions, between our types. Because I understand you, and if I'm going out of my way to understand you, guess what? That means you're going to go out of your way to understand me. If I'm okay with you being an ESTJ, or an ESTP, or insert any type here, any of the 16 types. If I'm okay with that, and if I really understand you, then you would seek to understand me. Yeah, sure, it sounds like a covert contract, but it's very simple. Who the hell is going to be motivated in being okay or [under] at least going so far as to understand ENTPs, who's going to do that?
Chase: 14:34 No one, no one's going to be okay with that. Unless I take the first step in trying to understand you. If I'm going out of my way understanding everyone else, then over time, because they could see that I understand them, then they themselves will seek to understand me. And at last, for the first time in a long time, maybe ever, who knows? I don't know. People, people at least among me, maybe even society will be okay with me being an ENTP too. And that my friends is the real meaning behind the Golden Rule. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Hold other people accountable based on their type, not by some, not by your standard. We've got too many people walking around like ISFJs. They judge everyone else like ISFJs, or they judge everyone else by their best friend type, known as the ISFP, because people naturally are looking for their ego, or they're looking for the person that's most compatible with them or they're looking for people who are their subconscious so they can live vicariously through them. Yeah, you didn't know that did ya? People live vicariously through other people, through their subconscious, and that's why there's some jealousy there and that's why there's conflict between people. When you have an ego meeting their subconscious and another person's ego that causes a lot of problems, causes a lot of conflict.
Chase: 16:15 Treat others the way you want to be treated. Treat others based on their type. Find out what their type is, understand them, learn them, and hold them accountable to the standard of that type... of a mature version of that type. A better version of that type. A better overseer, a better ESTJ, a better ISTP, a better ENTJ, a better ENFJ. That's all the in charge types, right? Hold them to that standard, and then also hold you to a better standard where you, like, I'm an ENTP, so I have to hold myself to a standard of being a better ENTP. This is the hidden truth behind the Golden Rule. Treat others the way you want [treated] way that, the way you want to be treated, which means treat others based on their type, and because you're treating others based on their type, they're going to treat you better based on your type.
Chase: 17:16 And that is the message behind synchronicity and compatibility. And we're going to be exploring this concept more as we dive into the cognitive functions and then we dive into the compatibility of all the types where finally it will all be revealed, cause socionics sure as hell has it wrong where people will finally understand who is compatible with who and why. And how you can optimize everything, any component of the relationship, even sexuality, just through knowing your nature and their nature. So anyway, if you found this video educational or helpful, please leave a like or subscribe. If you have any questions about the Golden Rule, or synchronicity, or compatibility, please leave it in the comments section. I will do my best to answer those questions as usual. And thank you all for your support on Twitter. It's been fantastic. And, uh, I have a lot more videos coming, uh, probably around the tune of I have almost 400 planned, so got lots of content coming and we're going to keep going day after day. So I'll see you guys tonight.